With the holiday season upon us, many of us red-eyed connoisseurs of cannabis will be flying home to families that perhaps don’t share the same views on pot that we do. In years past you may have snuck a few joints into your checked-bag (or paid double from a high school buddy still slinging dime-bags in your hometown) and secretly toked in your childhood bedroom, using the core of a toilet paper roll stuffed with dryer sheets to mask the smell.

But isn’t this getting a bit old? After all, you’re an adult now, and this is 2014: Getting high is no longer anything to be ashamed of.

Isn’t it about time you came out to your parents as a pot smoker?